“Why would I pay for private midwifery care if I’m planning to give birth on the NHS?”
- Lynsey Adams
- May 29
- 2 min read
It’s a question I hear often - and a completely understandable one.
The simple answer is this:
Private antenatal and postnatal care gives you the time, attention, and continuity you may not get elsewhere. It’s not about replacing NHS care. It’s about complementing it and giving you space to feel truly seen, heard, and supported.
Let’s break it down a little...
🌸 Time to feel heard
NHS appointments are usually 15 to 20 minutes long. They often focus on clinical checks, with little time to explore how you’re really feeling - physically, emotionally, or practically.
When we work together, appointments are usually around an hour, and I come to you. You’ll have the time and space to talk about what matters most - whether that’s your blood pressure or your birth plan, your worries or your wins.
This is your care, not just your paperwork.
🌸 Evidence-based support that centres you
NHS midwives do wonderful work, often under pressure. But they’re also working within hospital policies, which don’t always reflect the latest research - or the needs of each individual family.
I take the time to walk you through your options. I’ll explain what the evidence says, and help you feel confident in making choices that feel right for you and your baby.
Whether you’re navigating extra scans, referrals, or decisions about your birth plan, I’ll be there to support you:
To ask the right questions
To write preferences that feel both realistic and respected
And to help you feel informed, in control, and never overwhelmed
🌸 Continuity that builds trust
Seeing the same midwife throughout pregnancy and postnatally isn’t always possible in the NHS. Even continuity models often involve rotating team members - with private care, you see the same person every time.
There’s no need to repeat your story, re-explain your history, or start from scratch.
I’ll get to know you - your values, your preferences, and your vision for birth and beyond. That consistency creates calm, clarity, and deeper trust, especially during big decisions or unexpected changes.
🌸 Blending private and NHS care
Many families choose to give birth with NHS midwives and that’s absolutely okay.
Because of the preparation and support we’ve done together during pregnancy, you may not need me to be present at the birth. My role is about helping you feel ready and supported beforehand, and being there afterwards to check in, debrief, and help with feeding or recovery.
It’s a hybrid approach that works beautifully:
Personalised support before and after birth
Expert NHS care during labour
Ongoing guidance from someone who knows you well
So no, it’s not about going private instead of using the NHS it's about adding care where it’s needed. Bringing things together and putting you at the heart of your journey.
That’s what this is really about.

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